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Wednesday, December 31, 2008

On the Seventh Day of Christmas...

The simple things...
Two days ago my post was about being grateful for all the things we have at Christmas. Today I would like to focus on the flip side of the coin, the Simplicity - things like traditions, family, and memories!
Things like reading the Christmas story, gathering at the table for supper, taking a drive through the country, visiting quaint out of the way places, noisy gatherings, and spending time around the Christmas tree with the family.
Memory is one of the greatest gifts of all! Memories of the past and making them today.
Today we went for one of those country drives. It brought back memories and made some new ones too. Here are a few of todays memories.








This is a little story that I think portrays the simplicity of Christmas in such a beautiful way!
We were well over halfway to our farm when the storm broke. Lightning flashed, thunder crashed and a tree fell with a great ripping noise. When the rain poured in such a flood that we could not see the road, my husband drove off on what seemed to be a bit of clearing deep in the piney woods.
As we waited I sensed we would not get to the farm that night to celebrate Christmas Eve with our family. We were sitting there, miserable and dejected, when I heard a knocking on my window. A man with a lantern stood there beckoning us to follow him. My husband and I splashed after him up the path to his house.
A woman with a lamp in her hand stood in the doorway of an old house; a boy of about twelve and a little girl stood beside her. We went in soaked and dripping, and the family moved aside so we could feel the warmth of the fire. With the volubility of city people, my husband and I began to talk, explaining our plans. And with the quietness of people who live in the silence of the woods, they listened.
"The bridge on Caney Creek is out. You are welcome to spend the night with us," the man said. And though we told them we thought it was an imposition, especially on Christmas Eve, they insisted. After we had visited awhile longer, the man got up and took the Bible from the matel. "It's our custom to read the story from St. Lunke on Christmas Eve," he said, and without another word he began:
And she brought forth her firstborn Son, and wrapped Him in swaddling clothes, and laid Him in a manger...
The children sat up eagerly, their eyes bright with anticipation, while their father read on: And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. I looked at his strong face. He could have been one of those shepherds.
When he finished reading and closed the Bible, the little children knelt by their chairs. The mother and father were kneeling, and without any conscious will of my own I found myself joining them. Then I saw my husband, without any embarrassment at all, kneel also.
When we arose, I looked around the room. There were not brightly wrapped packages or cards, only a small, unadorned holly tree on the mante. Yet the spirit of Christmas was never more real to me.
The little boy broke the silence. "We always feed the cattle at twelve o'clock on Christmas Eve. Come with us."
The barn was warm and fragrant with the smell of hay and dried corn. A cow and horse greeted us, and there was a goat with a tiny, wooly kid that came up to be petted. This is like the stable where the Baby was born, I thought. Here is the manger and the gentle animals to keep watch.
When we returned to the house, there was an air of festivity and the serving of juice and fruitcake. Later, we slept on a mattress made of corn shucks. As I turned to a comfortable position, they rustled under me and sent up a faint fragrance eactly like that in the barn. My heart said, "You are sleeping in the stable like the Christ Child did."
As I drifted into a profound sleep, I knew that the light coming through the old pine shutters was the Star shining on that quiet house.
The family walked down the path to the car with us the next morning. I was so filled with the Spirit of Christmas thye had given me that I could find no words. Suddenly I thought of the gifts for our family in the backseat of our car.
I began to hand them out. My husband's gray woolen socks went to the man. The red sweater I had bought for my sister went to the mother. I gave away two boxes of candy, the white mittens and the leather gloves while my husband nodded approval.
I was breathless form reaching in and out of the car as the family stood there loaded with the joy of Christmas packages. The mother spoke for all of them. "We thank you," she said simply. And then she said, "Wait."
She hurried up the path to the house ande came back with a quilt folded across her arms. It was beautifully handmade; the pattern was the Star of Bethlehem. I had to look up at the tall pines; I could not speak. It was indeed Christmas.
Every Christmas Eve since, I sleep under that quilt - the Star of Bethlehem. And in memory I visit the stable and smell again the corn shucks, and the meaning of Christmas abides with me once more.

On the Sixth Day of Christmas...

Oops... We had my side of the family Christmas last night. We were all so tired, and I forgot that the Sixth Day had no posting.
Here is for the Sixth Day...
I am so thankful for my parents, two sisters, brother-in-law, and my not-yet-brother-in-law.(I'm very thankful for my husbands side of the family too, but am saving that for another day:)
I don't think I fully realized how important my family was until I had to move far away from them. I miss them so much and hope for the day when they all move closer. Thanks dad and mom for raising your kids right even when we thought you were crazy! Since I've gotten married I've found myself doing things you did that I didn't used to understand. I hope we can be as good of parents as you were! Thank you to my sisters for being some of my very best friends! I didn't realize that when we were growing up! And last but not least, thanks to the guys for being the brothers I never had! I love you all very much, and if we never live any closer together, I hope that in heaven we all have mansions on the same block!







Pictures from our Christmas.

Monday, December 29, 2008

On the Fifth Day of Christmas...

As we are spending the week celebrating Christmas, I have had much time to ponder all the things that make this such a wonderful time of the year. We have been shopping a couple of times since my family has arrived, and I have noticed once again the excess of 'things' we are blessed with! The word 'plenty' describes everything from food to clothes, from toys to tools, from opportunity to entertainment. We are so blessed to live in the United States!











Pictures of plenty...

Sunday, December 28, 2008

On the Fourth Day of Christmas...

This evening we were able to spend time with some friends that we had not seen for some time. We enjoyed their visit which brought back good memories of fun times spent together.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

On the Third Day of Christmas...

As we prepare for church tomorrow, I think how thankful I am for a good church family!


Some of our young people.

Friday, December 26, 2008

On the Second Day of Christmas...

In the Song, each of the days of Christmas stands for something different. On the first day, I went with the original quote from the song, and with it remembered Jesus, the true meaning of Christmas. Each day I plan to remember something that is meaningful and that I am grateful for this Christmas. However, it will not always follow the song exactly. Today I remember our Soldiers!





The embers glowed softly, and in their dim light,
I gazed round the room and I cherished the sight.
My wife was asleep, her head on my chest,
My daughter beside me, angelic in rest.
Outside the snow fell, a blanket of white,
Transforming the yard to a winter delight.

The sparkling lights in the tree I believe,
Completed the magic that was Christmas Eve.
My eyelids were heavy, my breathing was deep,
Secure and surrounded by love I would sleep.
In perfect contentment, or so it would seem,
So I slumbered, perhaps I started to dream.

The sound wasn't loud, and it wasn't too near,
But I opened my eyes when it tickled my ear.
Perhaps just a cough, I didn't quite know,
Then the sure sound of footsteps outside in the snow.
My soul gave a tremble, I struggled to hear,
And I crept to the door just to see who was near.

Standing out in the cold and the dark of the night,
A lone figure stood, his face weary and tight.
A soldier, I puzzled, some twenty years old,
Perhaps a Marine, huddled here in the cold.
Alone in the dark, he looked up and smiled,
Standing watch over me, and my wife and my child.

'What are you doing?' I asked without fear,
'Come in this moment, it's freezing out here!
Put down your pack, brush the snow from your sleeve,
You should be at home on a cold Christmas Eve!'
For barely a moment I saw his eyes shift,
Away from the cold and the snow blown in drifts.

To the window that danced with a warm fire's light
Then he sighed and he said 'Its really all right,
I'm out here by choice. I'm here every night.'
'It's my duty to stand at the front of the line,
That separates you from the darkest of times.
one had to ask or beg or implore me,
I'm proud to stand here like my fathers before me.
My Gramps died at ' Pearl on a day in December,'
Then he sighed, 'That's a Christmas 'Gram always remembers.'
My dad stood his watch in the jungles of ' Nam ',
And now it is my turn and so, here I am.

I've not seen my own son in more than a while,
But my wife sends me pictures, he's sure got her smile.
Then he bent and he carefully pulled from his bag,
The red, white, and blue... an American flag.
I can live through the cold and the being alone,
Away from my family, my house and my home.

I can stand at my post through the rain and the sleet,
I can sleep in a foxhole with little to eat.
I can carry the weight of killing another,
Or lay down my life with my sister and brother..
Who stand at the front against any and all,
To ensure for all time that this flag will not fall.'

' So go back inside,' he said, 'harbor no fright,
Your family is waiting and I'll be all right.'
'But isn't there something I can do, at the least,
'Give you money,' I asked, 'or prepare you a feast?
It seems all too little for all that you've done,
For being away from your wife and your son.'

Then his eye welled a tear that held no regret,
'Just tell us you love us, and never forget.
To fight for our rights back at home while we're gone,
To stand your own watch, no matter how long.
For when we come home, either standing or dead,
To know you remember we fought and we bled.
Is payment enough, and with that we will trust,
That we mattered to you as you mattered to us.'

LCDR Jeff Giles, SC, USN
30th Naval Construction Regiment
OIC, Logistics Cell One
Al Taqqadum, Iraq

Thursday, December 25, 2008

On the First Day of Christmas...

1st Day: The partridge in a pear tree is Christ Jesus upon the Cross...

And she shall bring forth a son, and thou shalt call his name JESUS: for he shall save his people from their sins. Matthew 1:21


Reading the Christmas story.









Wednesday, December 24, 2008

The 12 Days of Christmas

For me, Christmas has just arrived. Most have been in the Christmas mood for weeks, and though I join them, (this will be one of the best Christmas's ever, being married to the most wonderful man in the world!) I have been awaiting the arrival of my family! Due to weather, they arrived a little later than planned - Christmas Eve. Unfortunately, we are still not all together, but I am blessed with a wonderful family and I am grateful for each one, whether here or elsewhere.

Christmas is such a happy time of year, that it can tend to be a let down when family is gone and the tree is put away. With that in mind, I have done a little research on the 12 Days of Christmas and found out that Christmas is actually the first day, not the last of the 12 Days. (probably not news to most of you) So I have decided to take advantage of those 12 Days and keep Christmas around a little longer.
Some of the results of my research follows:
Contrary to much popular belief, these are not the twelve days before Christmas, but in most of the Western Church
are the twelve days from Christmas until the beginning of Epiphany (January 6th; the 12 days count from December
25th until January 5th). In some traditions, the first day of Christmas begins on the evening of December 25th
with the following day considered the First Day of Christmas (December 26th). In these traditions, the twelve days
begin December 26 and include Epiphany on January 6. http://www.cresourcei.org/cy12days.html

Probably most of you have heard the story behind the twelve days of Christmas, but I think it bears repeating and can be appreciated even by those of us who are not of the Catholic faith.

Catholics in England during the period 1558 to 1829 were prohibited by law to practice their faith either in public or private. It was illegal to be Catholic until Parliament finally emancipated Catholics in England in 1829.
"The Twelve Days of Christmas" was written in England as one of the "catechism songs" to help young Catholics learn the basics of their faith. In short, it was a coded-message, a memory aid. Since the song sounded like rhyming nonsense, young Catholics could sing the song without fear of imprisonment. The authorities would not know that it was a religious song.

"The 12 Days of Christmas" is in a sense an allegory. Each of the items in the song represents something significant to the teachings of the Catholic faith. The hidden meaning of each gift was designed to help Catholic children learn their faith. The better acquainted one is with the Bible, the more these interpretations have significance.

The song goes, "On the first day of Christmas my true love gave to me…"
The "true love" mentioned in the song doesn’t refer to an earthly suitor, but it refers to God Himself. The "me" who receives the presents refers to every baptized person. i.e. the Church.

1st Day:
The partridge in a pear tree is Christ Jesus upon the Cross. In the song, Christ is symbolically presented as a mother partridge because she would feign injury to decoy a predator away from her nestlings. She was even willing to die for them. The tree is the symbol of the fall of the human race through the sin of Adam and Eve. It is also the symbol of its redemption by Jesus Christ on the tree of the Cross.

2nd Day:
The "two turtle doves" refers to the Old and New Testaments.

3rd Day:
The "three French hens" stand for faith, hope and love—the three gifts of the Spirit that abide (1 Corinthians 13).

4th Day:
The "four calling birds" refers to the four evangelists who wrote the Gospels—Matthew, Mark, Luke and John—which sing the song of salvation through Jesus Christ.

5th Day:
The "five golden rings" represents the first five books of the Bible, also called the Jewish Torah: Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy.

6th Day:
The "six geese a-laying" is the six days of creation.

7th Day:
The "seven swans a-swimming" refers to the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit: wisdom, understanding, counsel, fortitude, knowledge, piety and fear of the Lord.

8th Day:
The "eight maids a milking " reminded children of the eight beatitudes listed in the Sermon on the Mount.

9th Day:
The "nine ladies dancing" were the nine fruits of the Holy Spirit found in Galatians 5:22-23: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control.

10th Day:
The "ten lords a-leaping" represents the Ten Commandments

11th Day:
The "eleven pipers piping" refers to the eleven faithful apostles.

12th Day:
The ‘twelve drummers drumming" were the twelve points of belief expressed in the Apostles’ Creed: belief in God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, that Jesus Christ was born of the Virgin Mary, made man, crucified, died and arose on the third day, that he sits at the right hand of the father and will come again, the resurrection of the dead and life everlasting.

http://www.appleseeds.org/12_days-christmas.htm